I'm not really sure what to put here. I'm a single male graduate student living on Long Island. I'm in a committed relationship that I am completely happy with except for one HUGE issue, our sex life. Other than that, I am in love with my girlfriend, but obviously that is a huge deal. It's actually really good when we have it, but our sex drives are operating on different sorts of transmissions so to speak. This isn't a problem that I have ever really encountered before and if other stuff in the relationship wasn't good, there would be an easy solution. I don't want to break up with her though, at least not yet, so I am trying this out. She actually recommended that I look elsewhere for some stuff on the side and means it, but I would still like to be discrete so as not to rub her nose in it. If you are interested, drop me a line.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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