I just wanna find someone to "YOU KNOW" and get a little (OK ... maybe a lot...) kinky with. Not looking for one-nighters but not looking for commitment either. A nice person with a VERY healthy and active libido! Willing and ABLE to interact frequently,please. I am NOT a once a month kind of person,but do understand sometimes life gets in the way. NO MARRIED MEN,No attached men been there it sucked...not in a good way either! I have been asked since I am married how dare I say no married men and I will explain. Most ( not all) married/attached men are cheating. Meaning their significant others do not know. I do not want to hurt anyone and I believe if your s/o would find out you have been messing about without a pass, she would be hurt. I am not willing to be a party to that. Also attached men have time issues with jobs, families, home responsibilities and to mention a few. I have found it is just not feasible for me personally to look for an attatched/married buddy Not negotiable so don't ask. Also I am not looking for anyone under the age of 40, nothing wrong with being that young ....Just not what I am looking for.I adore the look of a man whose age has given him that rugged and weathered look, like he’s been around the block a few times.I don’t think there is anything hotter than a guy with nicely kept salt-and-pepper hair. UPDATE! Please a couple of requests...FIRST send me more than a 10 word email if you want my attention," I wanna DO you & Let's do it "just doesn't get my attention and it has been done to death. SECOND....please no more pictures of your package, I have seen male genitalia and they are all pretty much the same, I would rather see your face, definitely much more of interest to me. Also no pics of sexual body parts male OR female doing what they are meant to do in any capacity,I do not need the graphic photos, I already know what the parts do. As for the last one....Will someone PLEASE explain to me just WHY no strings is so darned important???? I am not looking for a one night stand, I am looking for a caring FRIEND with benefits, and yeah, sometimes that has some strings. Strings are not all bad you know, they keep your joggers up! LOL You want a one night, no strings attached playtime...... I suggest you rent a or hit a bar and find a drunk chick! I am not wanting to be part of a harem, or a notch in your bedpost, just one kinky , thoughtful, considerate friend with benefits, and friends do have some strings. I have a hubby I love a lot, and now I want a Friend to play with, and YES, hubby WILL know about you!He will even join in if you are thinking about a 3 some but he is totally straight, so you can relax.....lol. So if my way of thinking bothers you, better find a single playmate or a cheater. I am open and very honest, I expect you to be the same, that is how an intimate friendship should work. I AM looking and looking seriously ,BUT I am not desperate or a hunk of meat and I am not without good judgment, and yes I am very choosy, you should be too. I have no problem if I am not the right playmate for you, not everyone fits or meshes well. I don't want to feel as if you will do "it" anyone with the right genitalia, I want to be as special a friend to you as I want you to be to me. So let's act like adults and see if what we can offer each other is compatible and clicks then just maybe we can both have some amazing and erotic pleasure, and find a wonderful friend in the process. OH I AM a BBW and happy and content with myself... so if your not going to be comfortable screwing and playing with a fat chick keep looking..... and if your are looking for perfection or a Barbie Doll she is probably on the next profile!.......>>>> "cause it sure is NOT me!

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Playful and a bit twisted, it really depends on the person, anyone is welcome to respond, at least if it doesn't work, we can say we gave it a shot. Someone who knows how to approach and talk to another person like they have a mind, feelings and intelligence. Someone articulate, has humor and a sense of fun and adventure.
How about we add in open minded, truthful, good hygine and non-judgmental to the mix, and it's possible we might just have a wonderful time.
And yes that pesky D/D free thing I am, you be, and I would prefer a non-smoker.
Please realize just because I have an ad on here looking for a playmate...I don't "do it" for any and everyone... some of the replies I have been getting are downright insulting. I am a nice person looking for a nice special man to have a satisfying and fun friendship with! That doesn't make me easy and doesn't make me cheap....anymore than you are for looking for the same thing.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
sigh ....Again with the you have to do a few?...........I like music

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, depends on the person and what we both agree to, we can discuss anything...who knows?

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, its kind of a mix and match thing dont you think?

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
SHEESH! Who wants an ego-manicial person who gets money for pretending/acting to be someone else????
How in the world would you know who you were being intimate with and if it was the REAL them.
Give me real people, thanks!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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