I find myself starting my life over after I thought I was done dating. In the process of a divorce. I'm an extremely monogamous per; but I have a very active sex drive. I have gotten used to sex on nearly a daily basis for years. Not sure what I want going forward; but I know I don't want to go without sex! I'm a 1-on-1 kind of guy. I am not at all camera shy - in fact, I love to flirt by exchanging phone camera photos, building the excitement and anticipation until we can fulfill that flirtation. Filming the act for enjoyment later is great, too; but I don't like having an audience. I'm not an exhibitionist. I love oral sex - giving and getting. Toys don't intimidate me like they do some men. They're just tools. A hammer in the hands of an idiot is dangerous. In the hands of a craftsman, necessary for creating functional and beautiful things! I look at toys the same way. I'm extremely visual - I like it with the lights on! Sex is meant to be messy. The wetter, the better! Take that however innocent or dirty you want to - I'll be cool with it either way.This online stuff is new to me; but I figure I'll give it a shot until it doesn't pan out or until I meet the right per who can handle being the focus of all my sexual attraction, desire and energy.You need to know, so - like it or not - here are the honest to goodness stats:Brown hair, (with a little gray starting to pepper through).Blue eyes, (I get LOTS of compliments on my eyes).Fairly well-educated. Professional and employed.Average build, (an inch or three extra around the middle - "middle-aged spread"; but can still see my unit when I look down in the shower!).6 feet tall, 213 pounds.Endowment: Average in length, ever so slightly on the upper side of average on girth. Never had any complaints. Really.I think that about covers it.