Squeaky clean, DDF, Passionate, smart, laid-back, sensual, always horny man looking for a discreet relationship with a like minded woman. I'm not going to wither on the vine, and still think I have some fantasies to make come true and looking for like minded people who are on the same journey. I'm not looking to change anything at home or uproot anyones life journey. Just looking for a friendly, sexy rest stop along the way every now and then. I'm a well-read, college educated, gainfully employed, fit, 6" 195, cut, 7", and am a man with an insatiable desire to please my partner. I'm very much a voyeur and like to watch, be watched, love pictures, and love playful role playing: teacher-student, porn actor-director, businessman---you name it and as long as it's not demeaning, degrading or painful, I'm in! I am an equally opportunity partner, and am open to all ethnicities. I'm as ethnic as a loaf of wonder bread, but underneath this coat and tie and polite demeanor, lies an open minded lover who is a veritable UN open for all interested in an active participant. I'm a social drinker non-smoker, friendly. I am your average soccer dad and want to keep it that way. I'm VERY discreet, low drama, and I understand that we are all busy and sometimes even though we want to, schedules make it difficult to drop everything and meet. I travel somewhat in RI, CT and NY but would like a local contact near RI. Would love a partner who is open to playing with other males in a mfm, and possibly other couples. I am in no hurry. There has to be a connection, and I'm not into gritting my teeth and getting it over or taking one for the team. I'd like to develop a relationship that would allow us to meet when our schedules allowed, but was open to texts, e-mails, and other flirty non-physical fun. Be open to a cup of coffee and some good conversation. I'm not looking to be your husband/father/, but attraction and a mutual connection is important. If you are a couple, I know my place, can follow direction, and also know that as you become better acquainted, things get better. I understand we may not click, but you will never know if you never try. Give me a shout and lets see if we can make something happen.

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone ideally who is in the same situation as I am, who has had some experience, and understands how this works. It is difficult to be spontaneous but not out of the question, and planning and patience are sometimes necessary. Be understanding, it's worth the wait.

I like to send sexy e-mails, flirt by text message, make sexy phone calls, and I hope you feel the same. I try to stay fit, but sexy is an attitude and so I'm open to all body types, shapes and sizes, just have some pride in your appearance and have all your own teeth. Be open-minded, like to laugh and willing to let your hair down and explore your fantasies, and have a desire to make them come true.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere, A motel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Like to laugh

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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