I am a single, white male who is 54 years old. I have thick, medium length dark brown hair (no balding or receding), dark brown eyes, and a full beard which I keep neatly trimmed. I wear eyeglasses. I am 5'6" tall and weigh 220 pounds, although I am trying to lose weight. I am a non-smoker and prefer to be in a smoke-free environment since I have asthma. I enjoy movies, several types of music (especially classical), museums, studying history, travel, hunting, fishing and birdwatching. I would enjoy dancing more if I could learn to do it better. Some time ago my relationship of twelve years ended. I have relocated to a new community, and know very few people here. Even though a reconciliation won't happen, I still have feelings for my ex-significant other. Therefore, I don't think it is a good idea to get involved in a serious romantic/emotional relationship right now. However, since I have not had sex since well before my relationship ended, I am sexually frustrated and would be interested in a discreet, preferably ongoing sexual relationship with a nice woman. Since I am a standard member, I can only respond to messages I receive.

My Ideal Person I am interested in exploring sex, or possibly even erotic phone conversations with a nice woman. Since my sexual history is limited to one monogamous long-term relationship with one woman, I never had to worry about the sexual health (STD's) of my partner before. As a result, I am primarily interested at this time in a discreet sexual relationship with someone who I could trust to be up-front and honest with me and who would be a "safe sex" partner. Because I still have feelings for my ex, I don't feel I am ready to get involved in another serious emotional/romantic relationship at this time, but I'm not really comfortable with the idea of just a one-night-stand either. However, it is always good to make friends and spend time with interesting, intelligent people. It would be nice to have a female "friend with benefits". Although I'm not extremely adventurous by nature, I am open to some new experiences. Unfortunately, most sex in my previous relationship was restricted to the bedroom, but I do fantasize about having sex in lots of different settings and would be interested in trying new sexual adventures. Obviously, there are several sexual "firsts" I have yet to experience. I do enjoy having a partner who is more adventurous than me to balance out my cautious nature. I do enjoy romantic settings, cuddling, caressing and lots of foreplay. I believe sensuality is very important in creating quality sexual experiences.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Billy Joel, John Cougar Mellenkamp, James Taylor, NatCole, R.E.M.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Honesty

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Selma Hayak. Dark hair, dark eyes, a sexy presence.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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