We are a very committed married couple. This is the second go round for both of us and after experiencing dissatisfaction in previous marriages we are extremely happy and suited to one another. We are both very genuine people. Kind and intelligent and down to earth. We make very good company and people tend to be drawn to us... both individually and as a couple. We are not models and neither of us spends as much time as we should in the gym... but people find us attractive. We are curious about and beginning to explore the whole swinger lifestyle. This is not anything either of us has done before or even thought we'd be interested in. But it's come up in our fantasy play and we thought we'd take a look at what's out there. We are a little shy about this and not entirely convinced about this whole thing. We could best be categorized as in the fantasy stage... not sure if we want the reality of inviting others into our world. So we're looking at the possibilities, talking some hot talk with each other and really just enjoying this exploratory phase. So understand that we are not going to be jumping into this thing anytime soon. If you're looking for experience and a willingness to meet right off the bat, you should definitely move on. If we're looking at your profile, at this stage, it's probably not because we're wanting to hook up. We're just checking out the possibilities. But we'd welcome chat with anybody. We're curious. We'd like to learn more. So don't hesitate to drop a line.

My Ideal Person Our fantasies seem to revolve around the female in our relationship. She's curious about female to female contact, having had a VERY limited experience once in the past and a lot of hot fantasies since. But we also build a lot of fantasies around her being with more than one man.

I suspect that when and if the time comes we'd be most comfortable with a single female or a couple with a bi female and a straight male.

We would not be interested in an ongoing relationship with anybody. If this happens it would be one and done. We'd want to meet for drinks or something first and see if the chemistry is there. If it works we'd retire to a hotel room to play for a limited time and go our separate ways.

We are NOT interested in meeting anybody local at this time. Our thought is that if we were to pursue a real time meeting at some point it would be done in another city far from home.

We are good looking professional people. We're not perfect and don't expect perfection. However we'd be interested in people who are attractive, clean and hygenic, reasonably intelligent and able to hold a conversation, and height / weight proportionate. We're only interested in folks that are within a few years of our age and younger.

Light drinking is expected but absolutely no drugs.