Brand new here, recently divorced, just to get that out of the way. So far mostly bots, and men, which I am not against, but not looking for. Sorry, but sometimes I can't help thinking these sites were created to make some people feel even lonelier. Am willing to travel for the right per or experience. Want to explore all of my kinks as much as humanly possible with the right per or people. I'm a definite sub but can switch if need be. It's difficult to find what I am looking for, especially in Santa Fe. PLEASE NOTE: For me, this is as much (if not more so) therapy as it is enjoyment. But believe me, there is most definitely enjoyment. Pretty easy going overall, like lots of different things. My interests are varied and many. I'm literate, like music, movies, martial arts, both internal and external; I'm a bit of a fantasy, horror, and science fiction geek; kind of a low self-esteem nerd in a slightly altered pera, maybe. I write a lot. Actually make the majority of my income from it. Especially if you are in NM, don't hesitate to drop a message. I'm often quite busy so if I don't respond right away please don't take offense. Friends are as great as play partners. Having others to talk to about these things is important too. If we click we click, and cool. If not then hopefully we can respectfully go our own ways with kindness. Really really want to explore all of this, yet I am also new, and can get nervous. I'm looking for women, but if in the end that brings in a guy, cool. I'm interested in exploring that as well. Forced bi is quite appealing to me. I REALLY love the idea of being dominated by a woman or couple WITH another female sub. Mmm... You can use me in many ways. IF YOU ARE NEARBY AND A DOMINANT WOMAN YOU CAN LIKELY MAKE ME YOUR BITCH. I also do have a desire to be a woman's human toilet paper. We don't have to do that, but feel it should be mentioned. This should be at least a minor testament to my open-mindedness :)

My Ideal Person Open-minded, non-judgmental, patient and understanding. Someone I get along with, both in and out of bed.