I am at that place in my life where I'm ready to make up for lost time, and just enjoy sex with someone whose company I enjoy as much as her body. I am on this site for one thing only -- sex. NSA. But I want a peral connection of trust and affection with whoever I meet. Not love, not a relationship, but something more interperal than just animal anonymity. I will admit to being less experienced than most my age, but I know that I definitely like to please a woman. If I feel comfortable with you, I will go down on you and stay there, because I love to see a woman lay back and just enjoy being pleasured. I am a very tender touch with my hands and my lips, all over your body. I am definitely above average girth, and some women may find that uncomfortable. Just so you know. I want to find someone who is craving sex, and when she meets me, craves me. If we hit it off, I am happy to continue to be friends and text you and hang out with you, but I am not in a place in life where I can realistically delve into a committed relationship ... unless you happen to hit me like a bolt of lightning, then I'd be open to pursuing that. Oh, and while I'd be hoping sex would be an option on the first date, I don't insist on that, and of course both of us would have the absolute right to just walk if there's something not working. I have no problem giving you pictures of my face, but I have a somewhat sensitive job and need to be cautious about revealing my identity to just anyone. If we enjoy a bit of interaction here on the site, I will be happy to show you what I look like. ALSO: DON'T HOTLIST OR WINK AT ME if you live over 200 miles away or are a fake spambot profile that is going to be deactivated in 24 hours!!!

My Ideal Person As far as sexual turnons go, I am attracted to large breasts above all, and definitely don't mind a little fullness everywhere else. Slim and fit is great, but I am not hoping to find a super-skinny supermodel type.

I am attracted to brains, someone who is well-read, educated, and with a pleasant, intelligent sounding voice.

I would love to find someone who I can be an escape to ... we've all had hurts in our lives, sometimes it takes someone who's been through similar hurts to help you move on. I am attracted to emotional strength that is also vulnerable at the same time, and being in touch with your feelings and not just putting a wall up is important to me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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