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A blog? Really?
Posted:Aug 15, 2016 6:59 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2016 7:27 am
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so I was asked if my writings were true or a work of fiction...

I'll never say...

If you see yourself in my writings then perhaps they are true?

I have no rhyme or reason or theme to my entries...

I just write what I write...

Sometimes from the heart...but mostly from my mind... as crazy as it is...

so don't read anything more into what I say...

because perhaps it is fiction?

I welcome any and all comments... but please comment with love... even if you disagree there's no need to be uncivilized.

so enjoy the ride into my heart and mind... and sometimes even I

Never Thought of That.
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Delay in Comment Responses
Posted:Jun 2, 2017 7:33 pm
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2017 2:57 pm
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When I was born, my mom told me I was special...

I always thought it was a good thing until I came here...

A blog compadre mentioned to me that my blog responses/ comments took forever to post...

At first, I thought he was koo-koo... I mean everyone's response posted in a timely manner, so I chalked it up to a one-time deal... you know... glitch city here.

Then another compadre mentioned the same thing to me so I started to investigate...

Lo and behold they were both right... my responses/comments were taking upwards of three hours to post.

Why me? Because I'm special? I mean, everyone else's comments post pretty much immediately.

Well, I decided to contact India Customer Service and you guessed it, didn't have an answer.

So my next step was to post my issue on the support blog... and this was their response... Mind you... I didn't expect a real answer but just wanted to share and apologize in advance for the delay in my responses...
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SiteSupport > Site Problems, Bug reports, Customer Feedback and Suggestions – May 2017 (4/30/2017 6:44 pm)

Quoting papis_baby_girl:
is there a reason why my replies to blog posts are delayed?

There are two posters that have told me that they never see my responses until much later than when I've posted...

I just responded to someone's post and I see it when I'm signed on. I created another profile and signed on as that profile, accessed that blog post and I don't see my post.

what is going on here?

Dear papis_baby_girl

Thank you for taking the time to post to our blog. All user-created content that is posted on AdultFriendFinder must first be reviewed and approved by our compliance team. Sometimes, during peak hours, this process can take a while. It should never take longer than a day though, so please let us know if your content is not posted in 24 hours.

Warm Regards,
Michael
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So yeah... looks like everything I post, whether benign or controversial is delayed due to approval from compliance team...

and I mean everything... guess I'm on the 'special' list.
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Why You Pissed at Me?
Posted:Feb 15, 2018 4:09 pm
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2018 2:01 pm
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Not my fault that:

-your profile shows you as a couple but you insist you aren't but I still say no...

-you're attached and you give me a million reasons why I should but I still say no...

-your profile shows you 60 miles away but you try to convince me that you're really local but I still say no...

-you say you're looking for NSA, I tell you I'm not and you 'change your mind' but I still say no...

-you say you're straight, but your profile states otherwise, and you say 'oh that's a mistake', , but I still say no...

-you want to meet like this second, I tell you hell no I don't roll that way and you ream and yell this is a sex site, but I still say no...

-you state you're not looking for a -night stand and even though you're a billion miles away and you 'don't mind driving', I know better and I still say no...

Look bottom line... don't take my no so darn personal. It's not my fault that we obviously aren't compatible for various reason and no amount of begging will get me to change my mind. So don't take it out on me...

It's not my fault.
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Straight Women
Posted:Feb 11, 2018 3:52 pm
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2018 11:10 am
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ladies...ladies...ladies...

soft, beautiful, sensual, gorgeous, smelling good ladies...

I hate that I'm more flexible and can appreciate straight women tasting the fruit of other women yet very black and white when it comes to straight men 'playing' with other men...

Sorry... not as progressive as I'd like to be...and maybe one day I will be...

but for now...

ladies...

how do you rate your 'straightness'?
straight all the way...would never consider tasting female juices
like to kiss and touch but that's it
oh I'm down...for anything... and he doesn't even have to be present
straight? who is straight? loves all things lady like... from lips to boobs to anything south of the border
maybe in a threesome atmosphere...but I certainly don't need him orchestrating it
12 Comments , 6 votes
Straight Men
Posted:Feb 11, 2018 3:43 pm
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2018 1:25 pm
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I get it... I do...

labels... we all hate them...

but as a straight woman who wants to sleep with only straight men, labels are important to me...

I also get that sometimes, in the event that some men can't pickup, they may be tempted to...

well...

you know...

dip into the other side...

I know the spectrum is very broad...

from uber straight alpha male...
to
eh... if I close my eyes... should be alright... right?

so my question is... for those who declare (shouting from the mountain top) that they are straight, how do you rate your 'straightness'?
straight as an arrow...hells no... no man stank on my hang-low
touching is ok... sword fight and some touching...may be kissing
kinda open minded... would consider any man activity... but she's got to be present
straight? who is straight now a days? even though I say I'm straight, I would consider doing it all with a man
12 Comments , 20 votes
I concede...
Posted:Feb 11, 2018 3:05 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2018 7:22 pm
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and humbly apologize...

to those who criticize IM...

biggest nay sayer here...

hated that people would complain that 'IM doesn't work'...

I thought it an excuse because women would ignore you on purpose...

you know... couldn't pick up so it must be IMs fault...

well I am humbled...

after spending some time on here trying to broaden my horizons,

I realize that yes... IM does suck...

it's very glitchy...

I have responded many a time to not have my message delivered...

and yes...it is frustrating...

granted, my chats aren't that interesting... mostly turning men down... but it still, nevertheless, is frustrating...

so... I stand here, on bended knee asking for forgiveness for doubting you men...

I'm just about done 'broadening my horizons' and probably will discontinue hanging out in IM...

but to those who can hang in there, I wish you all the best...

Godspeed...
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Texting an Ex...
Posted:Feb 6, 2018 6:04 am
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2018 3:36 pm
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Have you ever texted your ex 'by mistake'?

lololol

so yesterday I received a text from my ex who I haven't heard from in about a year...

"what up kid"

huh?

first of all who is that?

so I looked up the number... oh right... I thought it looked familiar...

why is he texting? (a ha... I know why and hell no!)

and even better, who is 'kid'?

So I didn't respond... didn't even give it a second thought...

then 3 hours later, this came:

"Hi, I'm sorry I just realized I sent that to you by mistake. I hope your (sic) doing well."

rrriiiggghhhtttt

so since I didn't respond (you know, take the bait), he decided 3 hours later that he texted the wrong person (awww...trying to save face)...

although, he could have genuinely made a mistake...rrriiiggghhhtttt

I have never in my lifetime texted my ex 'by mistake'...

although I have thought about texting 'by mistake on purpose'... you know... on that drunk night when I wanted some lovin' and missed him...for like a second... but I never did follow through... reeked terribly of desperation...

anyways...

how about you? have you ever texted an ex 'by mistake'?
or
was it more like 'by mistake on purpose'?
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Wow...just Wow....
Posted:Feb 4, 2018 2:16 pm
Last Updated:Feb 5, 2018 6:54 pm
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I realize this is a sex site... but I've just gotta get this out... and it's not sex-related...

(I hate to always segue but I feel I must to avoid all of the 'it's a sex site' comments)

Just warning you ahead of time because I will delete any comments that tell me the obvious...

My mother...

man oh man...

She has got to be the most difficult person on the face of the earth...

every time I make an effort, it's for naught...

I
just
cannot
make
her
happy

and yet I try...

why?
why do I bother? why do I care?

because she's my mom?

it infuriates me that my brother can write her off without worry, hesitation, regret and yet I cannot.

I wish I could be more like him...

but the guilt...

not sure how much more I can take...
(probably a ton more because I'm stuck in the vicious guilty cycle)

God help me but I must say...
I
can't
stand
her

Holy cow... while that felt great, I feel like I'm gonna burn in hell for that...

I can't get into all of the dysfunctional issues... but know that I don't take this lightly...

ok... I feel a tiny bit better...

I would feel even better if anyone else has run into this 'issue'...

If you have and want to share anything about it, I welcome it...

My good friend RB has been such a source of comfort and I will forever be grateful...

But feeling extra needy today (since it hasn't been that great tdoay) so need more 'reassurance'...

Thank you in advance...

~PBG
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Reading Profiles
Posted:Feb 2, 2018 7:32 am
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2018 6:25 am
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How many of you (men and women) take the time to read someone's profile?

I know most here are standard (got this from all the complaints on how being standard sucks), and can't read profiles, but let's suspend reality for a minute and pretend that you could...

Do you/ would you take the time to read someone's profile, look at their pictures, read their blog, review their friends and fave pics/ videos before reaching out to them?

Or you don't really care what they have to say because it's just sex nothing more?

Or maybe sometimes you do and sometimes you don't...just depends on the day you are having.
Hells Naw- all you need is some nekkid pics and I'm gonna reach out to you... F profile...not interested in what you say
Heck Yah- not gonna waste your time or mine if we're not compatible
Hit or Miss- sometimes...depends if I'm horny that day or looking for someone who matches my wants
12 Comments , 55 votes
IM Chat
Posted:Feb 1, 2018 5:59 pm
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2018 10:51 am
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so...
I'm opening myself up to new experiences... and one of those experiences is being present in chat...

big mistake I know, but I'll bite the bullet.

look... long story short...

if you cannot engage me in conversation then don't bother...

I can't tell you how many times I reciprocate to an initial chat only to hear crickets...

My most fave 'opening line' is when a guy steps to me and asks me 'how goes my luck here'...

well I usually respond, 'it depends on what you consider success'...
not too threatening right?

well I guess it is since I never get a response...

I get it... most are very vapid on this site...

men are looking for "I want to fuck you too like in 10 minutes so come over" in response to 'hi' or 'how are you' or 'are you at work' or 'yo' or whatever non-interesting, nonthought provoking opening line.

yeah... not gonna get that with me...

Just a warning...

and now that I said what I said, I'll probably be barraged by a ton of IM messages (yeah right)

Come on now... let's chat... who knows... you might get lucky (but probably not)
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Why does it matter? It's just sex.
Posted:Jan 26, 2018 4:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 27, 2018 12:53 pm
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Come on now...

just because I'm climbing the walls horny does not make me change my edict on no married/ attached men.

When I'm not horny, it's no marrieds...
When I'm horny, it still no marrieds...

You might be able to flip-flop on that but I won't.

And 'it's just sex' is so not an excuse...

'you looking for something serious then?' doesn't even matter... answer will still be no.

Don't even bother to try and change my mind.

If I wanted 'just sex', guess what... I've got toys for that. Why would I waste my time with you?

Plus...I'm a working girl so no daytime play for me...you're married so only daytime play for you.

yeah... too much work.
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It Just Blows Your Mind
Posted:Jan 10, 2018 6:13 pm
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2018 10:12 am
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*** So yeah... was on the Lala tip and wanted to stay positive for 2018, but I just can't... perhaps after my rant I'll try again*****

On this site, women have the upper hand and you men just can't handle it.

Whine, complain, bitch, moan, degrade, berate, belittle...that's all you do...

I realize that in life, most men do have the upper hand... they get paid more, hold higher job positions, cry-babies when they are sick, don't want to change a diaper...

but on here, it's the women who hold all the cards and that just gets your goat.

Is your mind so blown to realize that you don't matter, you don't have a choice, you don't have an opinion?

Let me explain a few things...

if we don't reply to your email, it's because we don't have to.
if we don't reply to your im, it's because we don't have to.
if we want to block you, it's because we can.
if we want to fuck you, we will, because WE want to.
if we don't want you because you are married, it's because we don't have to.
if we don't care about your sob story, it's because we don't have to.
if we don't want to see your dic pics, it's because we don't have to.
if we don't get turned on with 'let's fuck', it's because we don't have to.

Get it? Got it? Good...

now quit complaining and realize that it's because we don't have to do anything we don't want to AND BETTER YET.... WE DON'T HAVE TO EXPLAIN.

whew...that was exhausting.
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Well now I have seen it all...
Posted:Jan 2, 2018 7:44 am
Last Updated:Jan 10, 2018 6:45 pm
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well almost...

Married guy wanting a fling... in his profile he has the following:

"Please be respectful of my marriage, My weeknights and weekend belong to me wife. However there is sometimes wiggle room!"
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I can't...just can't today, so I'll let you guys comment...
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