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scott0250 56M
511 posts
1/10/2019 5:28 pm

There are some good men on this site but I guess most of you women do not even notice us. You are too busy talking with the disgusting pigs and then complaining about it.


TB5758 65M/67F  
577 posts
1/10/2019 5:29 pm

Well said! It goes for everything that is said on here to everyone. Especially the fucking trolls. If you would not have the lack of class or "balls" to say it face face to face, then don't say it. You are 100 percent right.


timebomb2 64M

1/10/2019 5:30 pm

the next time i contact a woman from chicago who's really in ghana, i'll call you.
in fact, i bet i can find 10 within 20 minutes. the hard part is getting them to admit it.
or the girl who's seeking her soul mate, her forever love to marry and have children... again 10 in 20
there are more fake girls here than real.
i'll be leaving when my subscript is up


timebomb2 64M

1/10/2019 5:33 pm

Nice to hear from you..I'm doing pretty good and you ? My name is Paula, a new member here looking for my soul mate. A man who is ready to make a family and love me for who i am. someone i can call my best friend, lover and husband to be with the matter of time, friends at first will surely do for me .Thank you for having the time to view my profile and sending me a message me as well.Can you please tell me more about you and what you are looking for here ..Love to hear from you

i'll bet you a dollar she's not in lansing and not even in the country.
want more?


clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
1/10/2019 5:42 pm

We as a society get what we ask for .We are selfish , undisciplined, impatient , demanding, emotional childish , angry , needy , dishonest lack self esteem , negative thinkers , judgmental , fearful , and this is what many have been raised to be .The government and schools, the media all support this erosion of society and civility to get power and money .they also divide people to gain control and shift blame . this is why mankind will eventually destroy itself .One cannot tell good character from the bad actors .The internet makes it all easier since it is anonymous .


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
1/10/2019 5:52 pm

    Quoting timebomb2:
    Nice to hear from you..I'm doing pretty good and you ? My name is Paula, a new member here looking for my soul mate. A man who is ready to make a family and love me for who i am. someone i can call my best friend, lover and husband to be with the matter of time, friends at first will surely do for me .Thank you for having the time to view my profile and sending me a message me as well.Can you please tell me more about you and what you are looking for here ..Love to hear from you

    i'll bet you a dollar she's not in lansing and not even in the country.
    want more?
Timebomb, I'm not sure you really understand...

I'll bet you a dollar that "She" isn't even actually a she...

But rather yet another male appendage - acting like another male appendage...


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
1/10/2019 6:09 pm

    Quoting Msmealsonheels:
    Timebomb, I'm not sure you really understand...

    I'll bet you a dollar that "She" isn't even actually a she...

    But rather yet another male appendage - acting like another male appendage...
A lot of this action is available here , A lot of "she " we see here ,are easy to spot as , at best an "it"

Patience and manners wins out almost always..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
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also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


amybell2 55F
54 posts
1/10/2019 7:00 pm

Cinnamon, very nicely stated. It is sad that it has to be said. It should be common sense. I know when I used to go to the bars no one walked up to me, showed me their dick, and asked me to peg them.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
1/10/2019 7:24 pm

I doubt that your intended audience of rude men, read blogs, let alone yours.. So your message has fallien on vacant ears.. But hey.. it's your space... 🙂
As for 'all those women leaving'... well good luck to them. You've got to have a sense of humor and a thick skin to enjoy this tiny island... 🏝️ And if it's no longer fun.. well...
I get harassed by rude women all the time, and I just turn my other cheek... 😁


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
1/10/2019 8:00 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I doubt that your intended audience of rude men, read blogs, let alone yours.. So your message has fallien on vacant ears.. But hey.. it's your space... 🙂
    As for 'all those women leaving'... well good luck to them. You've got to have a sense of humor and a thick skin to enjoy this tiny island... 🏝️ And if it's no longer fun.. well...
    I get harassed by rude women all the time, and I just turn my other cheek... 😁
Cute cheeks!!! and that's called harassment

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porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
1/10/2019 10:15 pm

Again from some of the male comments, most aren't listening they are reacting to the truth, LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN, IF YOU WON'T SAY IT TO WOMEN IN PUBLIC DON'T SAY IT ONLINE, THERE IS A TIME AND A PLACE FOR EVERYTHING, READ PROFILES FIRST, IF YOU CAN'T BECAUSE YOU ARE A STANDARD MEMBER THEN WITH A KIND GREET AND WAIT FOR A REPLY, BE PATIENCE PEOPLE DO HAVE LIVES OUTSIDE OF THIS SITE. YES WE ALL WANT SOME OF THE SAME THINGS ON HERE BUT COME ON HAVE COMMON SENSE AND MANNERS.


IVFalternative 52M
630 posts
1/10/2019 10:18 pm

    Quoting  :

I read it. In the title and beginning of the post she says:

Gentlemen...Have You Noticed?
1. You can't get a reply to your messages
2. Can't get anyone to meet up with you
3. You keep trying and get turned down over and over


So straight away I knew she wasn't talking about me. If you read that and it does speak to you, perhaps you could change that situation if instead of arguing just read what she's saying and think about it.

So far every woman on this blog has agreed with her. Just listen to this message come from woman after woman on this site and try to understand what they go through. Put what you go through aside and focus on understanding.

Many women on this site want to meet men and even go so far as to tell you the obstacles that are preventing that. If you are really a good guy who isn't getting a chance, I'd recommend absorbing this information and experimenting with ways to differentiate yourself from the men she's complaining about.

Bitter #NotAllMen comments won't do it for you.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
1/11/2019 2:04 am

Please Don't "Tar us all with same brush" Cinn.

Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


mc_justmc 63M

1/11/2019 8:39 pm

Is this about me? It is, isn't it? You can tell me, I can take it. Oh please tell me this isn't about me.....


angeldemoted 44F  
55 posts
1/17/2019 12:23 pm

Oh you said that so well. And with so... so... sooooo much more kindness then I would have.

And I'm killing myself laughing at all the defensive responses from guys. But then it is January the month off all the new members who joined over the holidays and figure paying for their membership guarantees them sex.

Seriously boys... common courtesy really will get you a lot further.


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
1/17/2019 4:19 pm

Many of these men are unaware that they never had a chance, in the 1st place.

I get messages, both in my blog mailbox, and via the message inbox here - where men go on and on, ad nauseum, about what they would do with my breasts. They seem to have NO clue that they will never get near my breasts, or any other part of me, if they don't first treat me as a whole person.

And, if they live way hell and gone across the country, I am NOT interested in chatting with them about my breasts.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


PCBDean57 66M
27 posts
1/17/2019 5:29 pm

You know, I'm the nice guy who contacts a woman with respect and not a "Do you have a mattress attached to your back" message. Just general message maybe about something I see in their profile and still no "No Thank You" or a message stating she is not interested. Nothing back at me. SO women play that game also.


Mitchums1601 56M
198 posts
1/17/2019 11:49 pm

Great advice to all. Men and women!


JoshRook7 27M

1/19/2019 12:10 am

Trying to get in someone's pants or not, respect is always part of the game.

Degradation kinks notwithstanding.


codyyyyw 23M

1/20/2019 10:47 am

I agree with whats said but a fair amount of women have been rude too, so respect is a two way street, its not just a male problem


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

1/24/2019 5:06 am

Reality...... Majority of the women here are in it for the attention only due to not getting any in real life! It could be thru pictures, blogs, or webcam.

Those who are here actually looking to meet have some unrealistic expectations. Regardless of the fact he/she might be a douchebag, they have the "look".

I'd say most men here are decent, good guys. I would venture to say they get tired of surfing thru the attention seeking idiots.

So grouping all men as rude, makes the blogger the only fool here.


Handsome12oo 41M
17 posts
1/25/2019 4:50 pm

Very interesting point of view


bottomtoenjoy 35M
55 posts
1/26/2019 11:14 pm

I totaly agree,I have only been on this site a short time,I have always treated all women like they should be treated,with respect,as my grandma once told me,,,YOU DONT GET RESPECT,YOU FIRST HAVE TO EARN RESPECT,,so,even when I message a woman,I have always shown respect,and alot as talked to me,I start out by asking them how there day was,they may go all day and no one will take the time to ask them that,and the response was great,some may just want someone to talk to,from the keyboard we are all strangers,being nice is a great way to start


RONINyKIKLA 46M/29F

1/31/2019 4:48 am

I hear ya. I am one of the rare ones I guess. And me and my lady will not invite someone disrespectful of disgusting into our fun. I agree with you. Have a great day. Ghanksx for standing up to the degenerates


nottm012345 53M

1/31/2019 10:39 am

I'm sure many guys on here are coarse, rude, and they approach women in a "direct" way.. BUT THEN this is a sex site. Sooo, talking about sex isn't entirely unexpected and many guys on here also know there are millions of fake profiles on here so adopting the traditional dating mentality on here may not be a good idea.


Mr85x 38M
7 posts
2/1/2019 5:48 am

Lots and lots of dicks out there, dont be one,at least not all the time


MP9927 36M

2/2/2019 7:21 pm

Good advice

Although I find sometimes a simple "Sorry but I'm not interested" reply can be polite to us "gentlemen" instead of the cold shoulder. You know...just common courtesy from a lady.

But hey, who am I to preach on how a lady should act.


silk_petal_rose 60F  
2363 posts
2/3/2019 1:41 pm

I have been here a very long time............and over the years. the men here have changed from polite intelligent men. to terrible horrid filty pigs.. but I think its the fault of A.F.F. they push the site as a sex site. they push men into thinking join this site and you will get laid tonight. which is 100% false...I'm sure if it was possible to check. the amount of women members on this site has declined 10 fold over the years. for that reason.the men just arent "men" anymore.. they are pigs.

silky...


Aes604 49M
46 posts
2/3/2019 2:12 pm

I couldn't agree more


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
2/3/2019 4:11 pm

    Quoting MP9927:
    Good advice

    Although I find sometimes a simple "Sorry but I'm not interested" reply can be polite to us "gentlemen" instead of the cold shoulder. You know...just common courtesy from a lady.

    But hey, who am I to preach on how a lady should act.
I found if I politely replied with 'thank you for the email but I'm not interested', 9 out of 10 times, the reply back was so vile it was not worth it.

AdultFriendFinder is not required to confirm the maturity level, mental and emotional health of their members.

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Spokane196454 59M

2/3/2019 9:29 pm

I am trying to be as courteous as i can ,treat ladies with respect!


looking18201 55M
11 posts
2/4/2019 7:20 am

i agree, but i always seem to be polite and clean and find it hard to even get a reply


SwirlLoveCpl 54M/50F

2/4/2019 8:52 am

    Quoting codyyyyw:
    I agree with whats said but a fair amount of women have been rude too, so respect is a two way street, its not just a male problem
I having a feeling that the problem you are seeing is from the backlash that is caused by many of the gentlemen on here acting like a horses ass. Which is ruining it for those men who really are trying to be gentlemen.


raylixit 62M
10 posts
2/6/2019 9:20 am

I have no doubt there are a lot of rude men here. Probably even more than you'd find in the real world, because the anonymity makes them bolder.

But i don't think it's asking too much for a woman to send a quick "thanks, but no...sorry." to men who approach them with respect. You'd do that much to a man who approached you IRL, wouldn't you?

Hey...I know I'm ugly. I've been shot down more times in my life than I can remember. I can handle rejection. Do me the courtesy of treating me like a person and have the guts to say you're not interested.


whizsati 34M
6 posts
2/6/2019 2:04 pm

You can see me on the website > https://is.gd/TlWp2i


readyforgoodnite 57M/57F

2/7/2019 12:05 am

there are jerks on here but you come across a bit persnickety the common denominator is you you sure you arent being a bit not so fun


NotDesper8Horny 62M

2/7/2019 2:48 am

I personally am as polite and courteous to all people with whom I communicate. I don't believe the way which some men communicate on the site is the only issue. I am sure having a dick pic for a profile photo isn't helping any man connect with another member. Another reason the vast majority of men are ignored is the simple fact there are many more men on the site than women. Women can be as selective as they choose.


letssee1717 40M

2/7/2019 4:36 pm

judgey much


Tomthumb07 62M
60 posts
2/8/2019 6:19 am

I always open with" Hello" or maybe "nice pic" if they have a pic posted but I seldom get a reply. So I cant tell if my IM is working or I'm just being ignored


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