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Withholding and fabricating are implicit and explicit untruths Off with his head !
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Hey Darlin, ..........I’m sorry to hear that!......It sucks to be sure,........Just Remember a tiger can’t change his stripes,......... Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
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4/25/2019 9:02 pm |
Sexy tits
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the only trouble is expecting honesty out of humans .We are incapable of true honesty ,It is not in our nature.That is truth . reality . One must keep ones expectations in line with reality , not expect reality to align with our expectations .My wife who is super trusting and kind hearted with a polly anna view of the world that everyone is good and kind and honest had to learn over years to stop hurting herself by expecting people to be like she wanted them be ,and expect them to be what they are. selfish , dis honest. rude, judgmental,greedy dumb, mentally unbalanced back stabbing and manipulative .She does much better now accepting , people as they really are and gets much less hurt feelings . still hard for her to give up and walk away but she does better . it is not you .It is the other people who do not share your values who you allow to be around you . best wishes p.eace to you .A decent person is out there. you hiding will not help you gain strength . go be you and just live . salaam
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I found out once I was the "other man". She was still married, not happily, if she was to be believed, but do things in order, yanno? I've never started something new before I was free and clear.
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We are all someone's secret, someone's biggest mistake and someone's greatest love, its how we decide to act when we learn this is what truly defines us.
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So what are you saying? He's married, he didn't tell you he's married, OR that he is seeing someone else, too? If he is married, and you don't like that, tell him , "Bye". If he is just seeing someone else, and wants to keep you a secret, what's the big deal? This site isn't a match made in heaven eharmony site.... this is a fling site, mostly. Where did you think this situation with him was going to go?
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Well... Part of me agrees with Heathen G here. I think you need to get more clarification from this guy to have him tell you the truth. If he's married, you should be telling him "Bye." But the one thing you asked from him was to not keep you a secret. He did, thus he lied to you. If it were me, if someone I'm seeing lies to me, we're done. If I am being completely honest to that person, and that person is not being honest with me, depending on the lie, I would give that person walking papers and tell them to hit the road jack. A little white lie, I'd probably tell that person to not do that and just be honest with me as I expect that from them. But if that person has a major lie that they are holding from me, it's time to say adios. Of course, had this had been me...I wouldn't have lied or kept you a secret. Just saying...
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He should have been straight with you from the beginning. If he was looking for casual say so, no strings say so. Much riskier for both in the long run.
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5/2/2019 1:45 pm |
You must be honest in this kind of relationship only way it can with with a Dom/Sub
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6/22/2019 11:16 pm |
What people do not realize is there there is a huge difference between doing the right thing and doing the right thing for them. Well, maybe people do realize but just don't care. Intimacy requires trust and to trust someone is to make yourself vulnerable to them. It is difficult to do that once you've been burned. Keep putting your self out there, you will find someone who has the best intentions. This doesn't mean that they won't hurt you, because everyone makes mistakes, but that once they make that mistake they try to make things right and attempt to not repeat it.
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